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Friday, April 29, 2005
Smile, Though Your Heart is Breaking
I woke up with heavy eyes, head and heart. It's the worst feeling in the world.. :(
When I checked my mail, a high school friend has sent a link to the article below. I wish I had read it sooner.. Should I be able to keep this relationship, I'll try to what the article suggests.. Else, maybe I'd put a temporary end to my love life.. Concentrate on schoolwork..if I can, that is.. LOL.. Oh well.. Anyway, 'cool off' means I may still have another chance.. MAY.. I hope I do.. I hope the following article helps you, too.. :)
Five Best Things to Do for Your Relationship
By Nina Burleigh
Are you ready to take your relationship to a new
level? Heed the wisdom of these five experts:
1. "Stop all shame, blame, and criticism. Instead
ask for what you want in a clear, specific, and
positive manner, and express appreciation for your
partner. To elaborate: Men need to feel
competentthat they make a contribution and that
it is noticed."
Harville Hendrix, PhD, author of Getting the
Love You Want
2. "Change from a critical habit of mind, in which
you're very involved with your partner's mistakes, to
a positive one, in which you catch him doing
something right."
John M. Gottman, PhD, author of The
Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to
Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and
Friendships
3. "When your relationship starts to break down,
you need AAA: an Apology, Affection, and a
promise of Action. You say you're sorry for what
you've said or done to hurt or disappoint your
partner. You immediately offer a hug, a kiss
some meaningful gesture of warmth. You pledge to
do something that matters to your partner."
Mira Kirshenbaum, psychotherapist and author
of The Weekend Marriage
4. "With books on the market like How to Make
Love Like a Porn Star, one of the greatest services
you can do for a guy is to reassure him that he
doesn't have to make love like a porn star.You can
show him how to have sex like a woman: creative,
sensual, non-genital-based, and more pleasure-
than orgasm-focused."
Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First
5. "All relationships grow a bit stale as time goes
by, and the longer-lasting they are, the staler they
can get. The best thing you can do is pump in
some fresh air. Along weekend in a romantic
hideaway would be ideal, but even a few hours in a
motel helps. Don't tell anyone where you are, turn
off your cell phones, and unplug the TV. When you
get home, you'll find your relationship has acquired
ruddy cheeks."
Dr. Ruth Westheimer, psychosexual therapist
and author of 52 Lessons on Communicating Love
From the May 2005 issue of O, The Oprah
Magazine.
Tiiin* was starless at
10:37 AM
1 Comment(s):
at 3:29 AM:
nice blog! feeling kinda sad too.. well, there'll be better days..
